Style & Attraction: Part 2

The other day I was going through my email when I came across an email from a few months back from someone that I met at a networking event. The person was asking me if I knew any single professionals that I could refer to them and their dating agency. I decided to check out the website, just to have a nosey. I noticed that on the site it specified “is an exclusive social network for attractive dynamic eligible professionals looking for a serious relationship.” I thought it was odd that they had specifically mentioned that one criteria for membership is that you have to be attractive. What do they deem as attractive? I’m assuming they mean attractive on the outside.

But then you wouldn’t join if you thought it was full of unattractive people. While some people may dismiss that style plays a part in attraction, I still feel that if you’re not making an effort in the style stakes then you’re shooting yourself in the foot. The good news is, nowadays just like you can learn to improve oneself, through self improvement or even how to pick up girls, through a dating coach, you can learn to improve your style through an image consultant. So if you are looking for love this year and fancy a few extra tips to help you improve your style then keep reading.

Now I did quite an extensive post on this almost a year ago which I suggest you check out style & attraction first. That will provide you with a great grounding and basis to start from. This post is going to be a little more experimental and optional, so by all means give some of these quirky tips a go, but they’re not a necessity.

• Look into women’s accessories – You’re probably thinking I’m crazy right now but hear me out. When I was single and on the dating scene I had this crazy idea of wearing women’s accessories because they were designed for women. So women were automatically drawn to them. At the time loads of guys were wearing those rosary bead necklaces, but I found this old vintage beaded necklace kicking around my mum’s room. Every time I wore I received comments and compliments about it so ended up wearing it quite a lot when I went out.

• Consider a ‘sexy stereotype’ – now this is not really something I’m keen on but I’ve seen it mentioned before and thought I’d mention it. It’s up to you if you think it would be something that would work for you. A sexy stereotype is just dressing in a particular stereotypical way for example dressing like a rocker or a hipster, or a hip hop guy. The idea behind it is that some women are attracted to particular ‘types’ by dressing like that type of person you’ll be more likely to attract that type of woman. Like I said, it’s not really my cup of tea but if you like the sound of it….give it a whirl.

• Highlight Your Killer Feature - As it says on the tin, one thing that I recommend women to do is highlight their best physical attributes. You can take that same concept and try it out yourself, so if you’re particularly proud of your arms wear t shirts that high light your arms. Again this is not a necessity, it works on the same basis on the ‘sexy stereotype’ and I say go out there and try it.

Now these tips are a little bit more experimental than normal, I guess you could call them ‘alternative’. If you’re after something a little less ‘out there’ then check out the original style and attraction post.

Let me know what you think?